Monday, July 13, 2009

Topanga State Beach


On Sunday, I hit the Topanga State Beach! Mommy and Daddy love to take me there but Sunday was special because it was the first time, Mommy took me all by herself. Good job, Mommy! I knew you could do it! It takes a bit of coordination packing the right snacks and sand toys but we got there and had a blast. I would estimate that I spent about 25% of my time eating, 60% of my time building complex sandcastles, and 15% of my time in the water. It took me a little while to warm up to the waves but after Mommy dipped my hair in the ocean, I was sold! I couldn't get enough of the water!!! Here's our silly game ... you should try it too!

1) Mommy holds me and leans me waaaaaaaaaaaay back so my hair dips into the ocean

2) I giggle up a storm

3) Mommy sets me down so I can run back to our umbrella on the beach

4) I turn around and run back to Mommy who is standing the water

5) Mommy scoops me up, up, up and then we do it all over again!

We must have done with at least 20x. And do you know what this means? It means that afterwards, 10 minutes into our car ride back home, I was Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...

Ohio Gozimas!




That means "Good Morning" in Japanese!

Yes, mommy is on a cultural campaign to visit all the religious temples in Southern California. (She likes to pretend she's a Social Activities Cruise Director for the family. ) Between her and Daddy, every weekend is packed with fun!!! Ever since she finished reading Eat, Pray, Love, she has been on a meditative quest. Secretly, mommy likes to meditate during the hour it takes me to fall asleep at night. Yes, it takes me an hour to get to sleep! That's because I'm meditating too.

In the past couple of months, we have visited the Hindi Temple in Calabasas (pix coming soon!), the Self Realization Fellowship in Malibu (pix coming soon of that too!), and this past weekend, we visited the Nishi Hongwanji Buddhist Temple in Little Tokyo. They were celebrating the Obon Festival and mommy could not pass up an opportunity to see something new with me. On the way there, we listed to Conversational Japanese in the car ... and after 30 minutes, I was yelling out "OHIO!" When we got to Little Tokyo, we were greeted with tons of beautiful lanterns, women dressed in beautiful kimonos, food (I loves me some rice!!!), and games galore. We snagged some dinosours, ping pong balls, and oodles of food.

Here are some fun facts about the Obon Festival:

Obon (お盆?) or just Bon (盆?) is a Japanese Buddhist custom to honor the departed (deceased) spirits of one's ancestors. This Buddhist custom has evolved into a family reunion holiday during which people return to ancestral family places and visit and clean their ancestors' graves, and when the spirits of ancestors are supposed to revisit the household altars. Also called the Feast of Lanterns, it has been celebrated in Japan for more than 500 years and traditionally includes a dance, known as Bon-Odori.

The festival of Obon lasts for three days; however its starting date varies within different regions of Japan. When the lunar calendar was changed to the Gregorian calendar at the beginning of the Meiji era, the localities in Japan reacted differently and this resulted in three different times of Obon. "Shichigatsu Bon" (Bon in July) is based on the solar calendar and is celebrated around 15 July in areas such as Tokyo, Yokohama and the Tohoku region. "Hachigatsu Bon" (Bon in August) is based on the solar calendar, is celebrated around the 15th of August and is the most commonly celebrated time. "Kyu Bon" (Old Bon) is celebrated on the 15th day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar, and so differs each year. "Kyu Bon" is celebrated in areas like the northern part of the Kantō region, Chūgoku, Shikoku, and the Southwestern islands. These three days are not listed as public holidays but it is customary that people are given leave.

Obon shares some similarities with the predominantly Mexican observance of el Día de los Muertos, such as customs involving family reunion and care of ancestors' grave sites.
Obon is a shortened form of Ullambana (Japanese: 于蘭盆會 or 盂蘭盆會, urabon'e). It is Sanskrit for "hanging upside down" and implies great suffering. The Japanese believe they should ameliorate the suffering of the "Urabanna".

Bon Odori originates from the story of Mokuren, a disciple of the Buddha, who used his supernatural powers to look upon his deceased mother. He discovered she had fallen into the Realm of Hungry Ghosts and was suffering. Greatly disturbed, he went to the Buddha and asked how he could release his mother from this realm. Buddha instructed him to make offerings to the many Buddhist monks who had just completed their summer retreat, on the fifteenth day of the seventh month. The disciple did this and, thus, saw his mother's release. He also began to see the true nature of her past unselfishness and the many sacrifices that she had made for him. The disciple, happy because of his mother's release and grateful for his mother's kindness, danced with joy. From this dance of joy comes Bon Odori or "Bon Dance", a time in which ancestors and their sacrifices are remembered and appreciated. See also: Ullambana Sutra.
As Obon occurs in the heat of the summer, participants traditionally wear yukata, or light cotton kimonos. Many Obon celebrations include a huge carnival with rides, games, and summer festival food like watermelon
The festival ends with Toro Nagashi , or the floating of lanterns. Paper lanterns are illuminated and then floated down rivers symbolically signaling the ancestral spirits' return to the world of the dead. This ceremony usually culminates in a fireworks display.

Here are some fun facts about the Temple:

The Nishi Hongwanji Los Angeles Betsuin has been serving Southern California since 1905. It belongs to the Jodo Shinshu Hongwanji-ha, one of the largest denominations of the Pure Land stream of Mahayana Buddhism. As a Betsuin, our temple is a direct branch of Nishi Hongwanji-ha in Kyoto, Japan. It is also one of 62 temples affiliated with Nishi Hongwanji in the mainland United States.

Like all schools of Buddhism, we emphasize that the source of our problems comes from rational causes and not supernatural sources. The solution to our suffering also comes through wholesome and prudent living amidst the web of causes and conditions which is the Universe. Our ultimate goal is thorough awakening to the profound Oneness of all life. Our path is centered on the relaxed but reverent saying or thinking of the name of Amida Buddha, the Enlightened One of Vast Wisdom-Light and Endless Life.

The saying or thinking of such phrases as "Namo Amida Butsu" ("I rely upon the source of measureless wisdom and unending life") is something we share with hundreds of millions of other Buddhist in hundreds of distinct denominations. The natural, non-anxious, trusting way in which we say or think this utterance is, perhaps, characteristic of our denomination.

Monday, July 6, 2009

My 1st Ballgame!









Play ball!
My Godfather Paddy hit a home run with me last week...he sprung for Dodgers tickets!!! Whoo-hoo! My first professional sports game! Alas, I know my daddy was a bit disappointed it wasn't soccer or badminton, but at least it was two great teams: Los Angeles Dodgers vs. Seattle Mariners! That doesn't happen very often apparently, and the M's actually dominated 5-1! Not that I really cared about that...I was much more into the lights that were on top of the stadium. So bright!!! Entrancing, really. And then, all those people! In fact, the first thing I did when I sat down is say: "Food!" Sure Ichiro was at bat, but my stomach was rumblin! I saw someone with fries, so daddy and I made the first of several trips to the concession stand! That's what baseball is all about, isn't it?! Snackity-snickity-snackeroos! I also loved the lemonade and ice cream. I think Daddy and I hit for the cycle as far as the concession stand food was concerned. Whoo-hoo!

All in all, I lasted until the 8th inning before having a major league meltdown. But for the most part I just flirted with Paddy and sat between my daddy's legs looking at all the cool stuff on the ground. What a day at the ballpark! Thanks for taking me out to the old ballgame, Uncle Paddy!!!! BTW- that seventh inning stretch song really frightened me!!!! All those people chanting...it was like some strange cult that nobody warned me about. People sure are strange!

Kisses. Hugs. Home Runs!
Lili (.)

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Are You Ready For Kids?


HOW TO KNOW WHETHER OR NOT YOU ARE READY TO HAVE KIDS
MESS TEST Smear peanut butter on the sofa and curtains. Place a fish stick behind the couch and leave it there all summer.

TOY TEST Obtain a 55 gallon box of Legos (or you may substitute roofing tacks). Have a friend spread them all over the house. Put on a blindfold. Try to walk to the bathroom or kitchen. Do not scream because this would wake a child at night.

GROCERY STORE TEST Borrow one or two small animals (goats are best) and take them with you as you shop. Always keep them in sight and pay for anything they eat or damage.

DRESSING TEST Obtain one large, unhappy, live octopus. Stuff into a small net bag making sure that all the arms stay inside.

FEEDING TEST Obtain a large plastic milk jug. Fill halfway with water. Suspend from the ceiling with a cord. Start the jug swinging. Try to insert spoonfuls of soggy cereal into the mouth of the jug, while pretending to be an airplane. Now dump the contents of the jug on the floor.

NIGHT TEST Prepare by obtaining a small cloth bag and fill it with 8-12 pounds of sand. Soak it thoroughly in water. At 3:00 p.m. begin to waltz and hum with the bag until 9:00 p.m. Lay down your bag and set your alarm for 10:00 p.m. Get up, pick up your bag, and sing every song you have ever heard. Make up about a dozen more and sing these too until 4:00 a.m. Set alarm for 5:00 a.m. Get up and make breakfast. Keep this up for 5 years. Look cheerful.

INGENUITY TEST Take an egg carton. Using a pair of scissors and pot of paint, turn it into an alligator. Now take a toilet paper tube and turn it into an attractive Christmas candle. Use only scotch tape and a piece of foil. Last, take a milk carton, a ping-pong ball, and an empty box of Cocoa Puffs. Make an exact replica of the Eiffel Tower.

AUTOMOBILE TEST Forget the BMW and buy a station wagon. Buy a chocolate ice cream cone and put it in the glove compartment. Leave it there. Get a dime. Stick it into the cassette player. Take a family size package of chocolate chip cookies. Mash them into the back seat. Run a garden rake along both sides of the car. There, perfect.

PHYSICAL TEST (Women) Obtain a large beanbag chair and attach it to the front of your clothes. Leave it there for 9 months. Now remove 10 of the beans. And try not to notice your closet full of clothes. You won't be wearing them for a while.

PHYSICAL TEST (Men) Go to the nearest drug store. Set your wallet on the counter. Ask the clerk to help himself. Now proceed to the nearest food store. Go to the head office and arrange for your paycheck to be directly deposited to the store. Purchase a newspaper. Go home and read it quietly for the last time.

FINAL ASSIGNMENT Find a couple who already have a small child. Lecture them on how they can improve their discipline, patience, tolerance, toilet training and child's table manners. Suggest many ways they can improve. Emphasise to them that they should never allow their children to run wild. Enjoy this experience. It will be the last time you will have all the answers.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Summertime Splashdown!

Located just 40 short minutes outside of Los Angeles, is the greatest summer adventure I’ve ever undertaken: RAGING WATERS! Yes, I conquered my first water park! Although I was very hesitant to go down the slide, my little legs and excited fervor got the best of me…I HAD TO DO IT! Daddy waited for me down at the bottom and the lifeguard made sure I was OKAY TO GO! WHOOOOOOSH! What a white water rush! When I got to the bottom I had no idea where I was, or even who I was, but that didn’t stop me from laughing and smiling and telling daddy: “More. More. More. More.” SO MUCH FUN! Have u been? You really must if you haven’t.

I was shivering so bad at one point that daddy had to forcibly remove me from the kiddie pool…cuz it’s just too much dang fun, I tell ya what! And did I mention the wave pool! Yippee skippee! We got on an innertube and rolled through the waves which make a sound like this when you crash through them: “PSHHHAAA!” We actually got in trouble from the lifeguards cuz we doubled up on the tube…a big no-no apparently. What can I say, I’m a rebellious child. Tee hee.

I was in my little lifejacket and kept saying: “No, daddy.” Which translates to: I don’t need your help, I can do EVERYTHING by myself. For some reason, he didn’t listen to the common sense of a super-independent 26-month-old. Oh just wait until I’m a teenager…I shall have my revenge!

Now what I really wanted to do was ride the SUPER CHUTES, but apparently I wasn’t tall enough, nor old enough. Hmmph! So I through a fit until daddy bought me a double scoop of chocolate mint and rocky road ice cream. That smile of mine immediately returned!!!! “I go to the ice cream man, and I order ice cream, man. And I say, hey, I want ice cream!” Yummers!

We were there for maybe 2-3 hours total and by that time I was worn out. All those kids. All that sun. All that fun. Too much for this little tot. Within five minutes in the car I was zzzzzzzz. Can’t wait to go back to San Dimas and rage in that H20 again!

Pix will be up soon…we were relegated to ancient technology…one-time-use camera…that has to be developed…whatever that means…

Stay wet,

Lili (.)

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Scenes From the Pasadena Children's Museum


















Puppies!!!!!

Okay, so you know how certain pop culture phrases sort of go around and become part of the cultural lexicon for a certain period of time. Phrases like "Choice," "Totally Awesome," "Radical," "Sweet," and "Tubular" really become slang for announcing how cool something is. Well, I have a new one I've started saying and really hope it catches on: "PUPPIES!" You heard it here first. I like to say it where ever I go: "PUPPIES! PUPPIES! PUPPIES!" Try it, you'll like it, doggoneit!

Lilianna